I don't frequent this part of the forum much, so as usual I'm a bit late to the conversation.
This is one that I always struggled to understand. Is there a reason why it was so off putting?
11 years later, this is still one of the main reasons I don't like these movies.
Yes, Uhura and Spock flirted a little in a few early TOS episodes. But they never did it in the middle of critical action going on, and Uhura NEVER basically told Kirk to shut up while she worked out her boyfriend problems
on duty, in a critical situation.
NuUhura was completely unprofessional when it came to her relationship with NuSpock. NuKirk should have told both of them to save it for off-duty, but he meekly shut up like a good little boy.
That's very off-putting to me.
Spock had a human girlfriend in 2259/60 in TOS. Leila Kalomi from “This Side of Paradise”.
Was that episode before or after "Amok Time"? I honestly don't remember. But in any case, Spock was being influenced by spores.
Or it's possible, just possible, Spock and T'Prynn don't see their engagement as binding until marriage.
Are you talking about the TOS characters? Remember that Spock tells Uhura that T'Pring is his wife. Obviously the bonding ceremony that happens at age 7 is as legally binding as a marriage that takes place in adulthood.
Mind you, that didn't stop T'Pring from being unfaithful ("Stonn wanted me; I wanted him."). Note that I don't mean they actually had sex, but she was unfaithful within the bonding she and Spock had undergone at age 7.
Droxine! The only time he looked interested to me (and he was divorced with T’Pring at that point).
Droxine... yikes. Spock goes from too embarrassed to tell his best friends about pon farr, and suddenly he's blurting everything out to some alien woman he's known for about 5 minutes?
I do not understand the issue with Spock having a human girlfriend, his father Sarek had one who eventually became his wife since I doubt Amanda married her Vulcan husband the first time she saw him. So Vulcan/Human pairings are not that odd. Beside this version of Spock seems to have less issues with his human side. TOS Spock needed therapy!
For me the issue wasn't that Uhura is human, but rather that she was unprofessional about the relationship. She brought it to work and actually shushed her own captain so she could carry on whining to NuSpock during a mission... and he meekly shut up and let her carry on.
Today, movies won’t let you rest. The polar opposite of TMP
I don't do well with too much busywork on the screen. It's visual and aural overload, and I end up only getting a fraction out of it that most other people do. It's too fast, too frenetic, and too loud.
So to sum up: I don't like this movie one whit better now than I did in 2009 and I didn't like it at all then.