One more long-winded post, and then I'll get out of your way.
How can an actor play a role or a scene when they don't agree with it?
They
act, I assume.
I read an interview with James Marsters while he was playing Spike on
Buffy the Vampire Slayer. (No, I cannot cite a specific source at the moment, but if I had time, I might be able to Google it up. But there
is a source; this is not rumor.) During Season 6, his character attempted to rape Buffy. Marsters said in the interview that he absolutely loathed doing the scene, because of his incredibly strong feelings against rape. The fact that he was friends with Sarah Michelle Gellar made the scene even more uncomfortable for him. But he is an accomplished actor, and he did his job. (Very well, IMHO.)
The conversation then went along the lines of "was she placing her personal values or in this case, her taste in men, on the character? This lead to a discussion of these values and tastes based on info available in her public bio and statements she has made.
An interesting discussion, for the most part. However, several of the posts I quoted above were non sequiturs that were not connected to the topic by the poster. That was my point.
I hope by this point people understand most of what we type here is opinion.
I'm talking about the adversarial effect of repeatedly posting opinion as fact--even emphasizing it as such. There are posters here who are convinced that their opinion is the only "right" one, and everyone else who disagrees with them is wrong. They often state their opinions loudly and/or repeatedly, i.e, "There was absolutely zero chemistry between Hoshi and Malcolm! None! From the first scene to the last!" This may illustrate a poster's strong opinion (which he/she is entitled to), but it also may inadvertently convey a lack of respect for anyone holding a different viewpoint (not so good). In a community filled with varied viewpoints, respect for
everyone's opinions is preferable.
Look, when I read a few thousand versions of "A Night in Sickbay" is the worst episode evah!!1!1!!"--with about 99% of those opinions stated as incontrovertible fact--and I observe that any dissenting opinion of that episode routinedly gets boo'd and dissed and dog-piled on, to the point where minority opinion-holders hardly even make the effort to join the discussion... perhaps you can see why I am such a big proponent of stating opinion
as opinion, and for dissenting views to be accepted rather than dismissed or attacked. It's not difficult to do, it shows respect for other perspectives, and it makes for a more inviting atmosphere for
all posters, including those with the minority opinion.
Over time, those who post incorrect information get corrected by the facts. That's the point of a free society.
But how much damage is done by the time the rumors are put to rest--if they ever are? In a free society, there are laws against defamation.
There is no rule here against speculating about/insulting/belittling actors, as long as they are not members of the board. (It's just as well that most of the actors aren't members, considering what is said about them.) The rules do state that posters should not simply blurt out a critical opinion ("Bakula can't act worth beans!", "Jolene's only talent was her bosom!") without backing it up with examples--i.e., showing the opinion's relevance to the topic. Otherwise, it's just spam, or trolling.
A few months ago someone asked why Jolene looked so unhealthy in the opening episodes of Season 4. The speculation ranged from anorexia to drug abuse, until someone finally provided the
correct answer, that several members of the cast came down with a horrible stomach virus during production, and Jolene was hit worse than anyone. But if you only breezed through the first few posts, you might be left thinking Jolene is a crackhead or psychologically unbalanced or uncaring about her health, or whatever.
I admit to feeling protective about actors. I live in L.A., and I know a lot of actors. Their careers live or die on their reputations as well as their craft, and most of them try like hell to guard their privacy and keep it separate from their work. There may not be a rule here to prevent a poster from saying that Ms. Blalock is a crackhead, or that she had "problems" with another cast member, or Mr. Trinneer must not like her because he hasn't seen her for a while. Setting aside that such talk is baseless and does the actor's reputation no good, is any of this contributing to the discussion in a meaningful way?
Middleman, I am going to get into trouble for this but:
Penguin, since you seem so interested in getting into trouble, allow me to use your post as another example.
Jolene saying that she has an over active libidio means that she is Horny a great deal of the time.
How do you know that's what she meant? What's the context? Was her statement in a skin magazine, or an interview with
EW? Was she even discussing her work on
Enterprise? I don't know, because you didn't say. We can add "nympho" to the rumor-mill now, huzzah. But what does all this have to do with Trip and T'Pol? Do you think speculation about Ms. Blalock's sex drive contributes substantively to the discussion? I have no idea, because you didn't go there.
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You gotta admit, you asked for it.

Of course you don't mean to talk about Ms. Blalock in a way she might not appreciate, and you don't mean to derail the T/T discussion. But it's possible to misinterpret your intent. And the context that
Middleman provided gives the "libido" statement quite a different spin.
I have no desire to box anyone in. My objective is to keep discussion flowing, and for folks to be respectful, so
everyone will feel comfortable. Most everyone here is doing a fabulous job, and I heartily thank you for that. Compared to what has been going on in the Trek XI forum, you're all paragons of civility.
