I certainly thought Finnegan looked his Academy age and nothing near the much more mature, "filled out" physiognomy of his old nemesis. Similarly, I don't think we have any credible rationale to argue that Kirk's first love would have been more likely to have been someone his age or an older woman. It's interesting to think that the writers might be playing with us to some degree, and simply showing the audience what these characters from bygone days looked like when Kirk knew them, while he's actually seeing them as aged, but clearly recognizable to him. In such a scenario, his comment to Ruth may have been owing to his shock in seeing her and being courtly to someone who obviously meant so much to him. I don't think I believe that conceit, though we saw something similar on Man Trap, but there wouldn't be any logical reason to pull that stunt here. I'm just throwing it out there for people's consideration.
By the way, where does that blond lab technician that he almost married fit in this chronology? Somehow, I don't envision her in my mind's eye, as being Ruth.
By the way, where does that blond lab technician that he almost married fit in this chronology? Somehow, I don't envision her in my mind's eye, as being Ruth.