I was more than happy prior to Generations not knowing what became of Kirk because I felt Star trek VI was a fitting and beautiful end to the entire TOS era. Kirk and the gang ended on a high note, and it was time to move on. Stick a fork in it, the 23rd-Century was done. I just wish the seventh Star Trek movie could have been a TNG-only film that built on what TNG had.
This was what kicked me in the teeth hardest. TUC was the absolute best send-off they could have asked for and it would have been fine leaving it like that.