I haven't read the Enterprise relaunch novels, but is there any indications in those novels that the Romulans used the Remans as their foot soldiers? That could explain Spock's line in Balance of Terror that Earthmen and Romulans had never seen each other during the war.
The idea that two sides could fight a whole conflict only in space with no visuals of each other is a bit unrealistic. Surely, there would have been boarding of ships, encounters on planet surfaces, etc... the whole drone ship idea from Season 4 and some of the books just doesn't jive in my mind for a large scale conflict, if the Romulan objective was to expand their empire, and not merely destroy their perceived enemy...
Any explanations provided in the books...
The idea that two sides could fight a whole conflict only in space with no visuals of each other is a bit unrealistic. Surely, there would have been boarding of ships, encounters on planet surfaces, etc... the whole drone ship idea from Season 4 and some of the books just doesn't jive in my mind for a large scale conflict, if the Romulan objective was to expand their empire, and not merely destroy their perceived enemy...
Any explanations provided in the books...