Man, I feel like people keep completely missing the point of why episode 5 broke some of our minds. The concept of Picard is fine, great even. It's the details that are the problem. Some stats: Raffi is the only principle that hasn't killed five episodes in...and she's a damaged drug addict with an estranged son. Killing isn't necessarily bad, some of the killing so far has been justified. Far too much of it has shown a surprising disregard for life.
This doesn't necessarily make it a bad show, but it's bad at being what Star Trek was to many of us. A challenging show that ultimately argues to do the right thing. If you're just looking for melodrama, revenge, romance, strife, and action this should scratch your itch. For me, there is more than enough television that does these things really well. Not just for me, but for kids growing up, I'd hope they'd have something like Star Trek in their life as a good influence. Something that among other the fun and conflict, teaches some empathy, critical thinking, and ethics.