As a ten-year-old who loved Close Encounters, for a while there I was a full-blown “We Are Not Alone” alien-visitation believer — until I watched Cosmos (and later read the book). Carl Sagan saved me!If we do, it will most likely be through telescopic observation of other worlds, detecting biosignatures or technosignatures in their atmospheric spectra or surface details, or through SETI detecting interstellar broadcasts signals. UFO beliefs have nothing to do with the scientific search for alien life; they're just ancient beliefs in demons and ghoulies and fairy folk dressed up with the surface trappings of the space age.
(Though once in a while there is an incident that makes me wonder. The Betty & Barney Hill thing always seemed odd to me.). (But by all means, Christopher, blow it up!)