Exactly my experience. I did not like TNG and spent years trying to square a lot round pegs. And it never worked out satisfactorily until I accept the idea that this is a story told by a point of view, and that helped out a lot.These continuation debates always make me remember the confusion that I felt when I tried to compare TOS and TNG long time ago, when I was still young. And that experience taught me one thing. That I shouldn't care so much about the consistency in Star Trek.