From a post I found on Reddit. You'll never think of B5 the same again
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The shadows are the parent who books their kid into tackle football with insufficient padding & gear, and known players on the team that keep score on how many teeth they knock out of their teammates in practice or how vicious the hazing is in the locker room. When the kid complains, the parent says "get tough. walk it off, and learn to strike back."
The Vorlons are the hyper-helicopter parents that are stressing the kids to distraction about getting absolute straight-A's in grade school so they won't hurt their Ivy-league college admissions. The kid is about to have a psychotic break over the pressure. The parent says "I made it this way, you need to also."
The parents are getting into screaming arguments about which child raising opinion is better for their kid -- measured by which one of them wants to win more and get more post-divorce ego points, NOT what is better for the kid.
Lorien and the other remaining First Ones are the grandparents, uncles, aunts, etc., wanting to knock some sense into both parents.
The Sigma-9-5-7 first ones are the elder cousin wanting to take the kid for a 'walk' (see what I did there?) in the park for ice cream and a talk to try and give the kid some background and advice -- but the LAST time that happened both parents screamed bloody blue murder about interfering. So all they can do is curse out the Vorlons in Ivanova-can't-understand-garble the next time they're mentioned.