Heh, I'm surprised to click over here and find it's a "Rejoined" discussion, I was just over in the "Diversity is key" thread talking about how I think that episode is remarkable for how perfectly it threads the needle -- for me, it unfolds it's pro-gay message wonderfully, with such a powerful and moving story, while remaining itself completely uninfected by accidental homophobia (as "The Outcast" was -- as so many 90's gay episodes were). I don't read Lenara's reaction to the kiss as shame at all. It's torment -- she can't square who she loves with who her society tells her she's allowed to love. I might actually think it's Trek's most well-tuned alien allegory, I'm trying to think of one I like more than this...
But anyway, the reason I popped over here was to say, I feel like Seven was the realization of the weird naked paradise idea -- here we have a woman who has evolved beyond any awareness or concern about the fact that she's essentially naked at all times (as always with Seven, I think to myself: thank God they found Jeri Ryan for that part, a lesser actress in that getup would have been such a disaster)