all I ask for is something more, breaking away from the grounded approach is a step backwards because its dumbs comic films again.
Not at all !
I love most of the MCU movies AND most of the X movies. Singer and co. went a long way towards 'normalising' public reaction to superheroes by toning it down in some areas and presenting serious drama with a fantastic twist. They paved the way for the MCU which also sidestepped the costume thing by starting with Iron Man.
Marvel quickly moved to introduce more 'comicy' elements though. It's not dumbing anything down, it's reflecting more of the source material and now the X franchise is following suit.
You sound like someone who's a bit embarrassed by the source material - 'Comics are kids stuff'. They're not. They're for everyone and there's as much variety in content and target audience as in, say, novels. Just staying with Marvel, compare Millers Daredevil with Deadpool !
Marvel are keeping more elements from the comics. It could be said that they're staying truer to them, and they're taking the audience with them. It's not dumbing down. You don't have to make superheroes stupid, even those who wear colored tights.
Yeah, I love the hell out of the MCU movies and shows. The major ones (Avengers, CA, Iron Man, Thor) I go to see in the theaters. The minor ones (GotG, AntMan) I wait for Blu-Ray. (I only consider them minor because they generally don't blip on my radar the way the others do.).
You're doing it wrong. Guardians and Ant Man were way better than Avengers 2, Iron Man 3 and Thor 2 !
Cap 2, now that was great...