First of all I would like to say that I am not starting this thread because I am trying to stir trouble. I have seen many comments where one person condemns Jeri Ryan for dating the boss - end of story and another person condemns Kate Mulgrew for treating Jeri Ryan terribly - end of story.
I was at a youtube video the other day and the comment section was full of that. I kept reading through for something to make me feel better but I didn't find such a comment, though I did not read everything there. I have thought quite a bit about what happened and I thought that a fuller look at the situation might be in order. If people think that this thread is the opposite of helpful then they can say so or not comment at all and hope it rolls off page 1 never to be on that page again. But if people think it is helpful or appropriate they could say so and/or add their own opinions to making the fuller; fuller, if they wanted to.
I'll summarize some points that Garrett and Jeri made at a con.
First Garrett talks about:
-The pr/Hook was on the first female captain
-Press goes to the captain with all star treks
-When Jeri came on all the press went to Jeri. Maybe there was a bit of professional jealousy there.
Jeri talks about:
-The studios publicity machine went into overdrive with Seven. They were very upfront about it. This was their opportunity to break star trek into the mainstream media. And they were very successful. And the publicity drive started before the character even debuted. And that just added to the tension.
-It was sort of the perfect storm because:
-You've got a new character being added
-All the press now shifts to this new character
-Writers get this new and rich character to write for. Seven became the focus for much of the first two seasons. And that's hard, of course that's going to ruffle feathers, it's going to make other actors uncomfortable and Jeri totally got it. It was handled differently by different actors.
Someone wrote, and I don't know where they got this from but that Kate is a person who hasn't played by traditional hollywood rules. I think that may be true. I remember Kate saying that someone involved with getting Voyager started said there hadn't been a female captain before and she was like: 'well why not?' Someone who played by hollywood rules might have said 'Well I'm glad you're writing one now', but not Kate.
I think there might be a story about Kate marching into someone's office and throwing a bra on the table but I don't know if that's confirmed.
I also get the idea that Kate has the great character trait of not lying or deceiving as much as some.
Also within the last 2 or 3 months I have become aware of a possible fact about Jeri Ryan. I am not going to say what it is. Not because I am trying to be mysterious, the information is out there on the net, but I just don't want to point the finger at Jeri. I am 90% sure about this possible thing being true. And so the point is that Kate may possibly have been aware of this thing and reacted.
Some people hold the steadfast view that dating your boss is always wrong and reprehensible. Well I don't hold that view, and what if your boss, or if your employee is the man or woman that you would love more than any other that you would ever meet?
Possible fuller story from Kate's point of view:
- When on her previous hit show 'Ryan's hope' she had a daughter and gave her away. However she immediately regretted it and tried to get her back but couldn't. I don't think she could even get information on her. At some Kate point hired a person or persons to find her.
- Now on her next hit show she grows close to an actress young enough to be her daughter. I think she may develop something like maternal feelings toward her. Then she finds out some other actress is coming on the show and taking her place.
- She joined a show where she as the captain, the female captain, would get most of the publicity. The rules now changed on her half way through the show.
- Any new character introduced part way through a show can cause some trouble.
- She doesn't play by hollywood rules, she is relative to some very straight up and honest, and she is for positive portrayals of women. Then over the break between seasons the young actress she has grown close to is given the boot, a sex symbol in a ridiculous cat suit is brought in taking the girls place and all the publicity is now on this new person.
- So Kate who is never late, learns all her lines on too little sleep, misses out on time with her family, to enable her to portray star trek's first female captain; is now confronted with a character that is a sex symbol in a cat suit.
- And she might have learned of that possible fact that I mentioned above, and reacted.
Possible fuller story from Jeri's point of view:
- Jeri did not get the role through dating dating Brannon Braga. Jeri in fact turned the role down on more than one occasion and only started dating Mr Braga after a couple of seasons on the show.
- It was a decision of executives of the show to sex up the role of Seven.
- Jeri may have had no idea before accepting the role that Seven was going to be sexed up.
- She was already in a tough position as the newbee on a show, but Kate's attitude just made it that much tougher.
- Jeri may have 'had' to date date Mr Braga for protection from Kate. I think the actors had three year contracts. So there may have been about a year left on Jeri's contract at that stage.
As Jeri said, it was like a perfect storm. I have a strong suspicion that Kate and Jeri would both be pretty nice to other people generally. But it was a terrible position for Kate and sadly it would seem that on this occasion she reacted terribly and bullied her co-worker.
I understand Jeri coming out a few years ago and talking of her "intentionally unpleasant" experience, even after all these years. If abuse happened, which it would seem that it did, that is a terrible thing. But the younger it happens, the more intense it is and the longer it lasts, the worse it is. Still workplace abuse is painful and damaging as well.
Thankfully Kate now regrets her treatment of Jeri. To roughly quote Garrett Wang and something Kate said to him? "All those things that happened with Jeri I feel bad and I know that I did, that I wasn't right in some of the things I did, some of the actions, words that I said".
It would be tough for some, being in the public eye and their mistakes being out there for people to critique. But Kate has shown that she has grown in this matter. But what of the people who throw zingers at Kate or Jeri over this and don't take a balanced overall approach.
I was at a youtube video the other day and the comment section was full of that. I kept reading through for something to make me feel better but I didn't find such a comment, though I did not read everything there. I have thought quite a bit about what happened and I thought that a fuller look at the situation might be in order. If people think that this thread is the opposite of helpful then they can say so or not comment at all and hope it rolls off page 1 never to be on that page again. But if people think it is helpful or appropriate they could say so and/or add their own opinions to making the fuller; fuller, if they wanted to.
I'll summarize some points that Garrett and Jeri made at a con.
First Garrett talks about:
-The pr/Hook was on the first female captain
-Press goes to the captain with all star treks
-When Jeri came on all the press went to Jeri. Maybe there was a bit of professional jealousy there.
Jeri talks about:
-The studios publicity machine went into overdrive with Seven. They were very upfront about it. This was their opportunity to break star trek into the mainstream media. And they were very successful. And the publicity drive started before the character even debuted. And that just added to the tension.
-It was sort of the perfect storm because:
-You've got a new character being added
-All the press now shifts to this new character
-Writers get this new and rich character to write for. Seven became the focus for much of the first two seasons. And that's hard, of course that's going to ruffle feathers, it's going to make other actors uncomfortable and Jeri totally got it. It was handled differently by different actors.
Someone wrote, and I don't know where they got this from but that Kate is a person who hasn't played by traditional hollywood rules. I think that may be true. I remember Kate saying that someone involved with getting Voyager started said there hadn't been a female captain before and she was like: 'well why not?' Someone who played by hollywood rules might have said 'Well I'm glad you're writing one now', but not Kate.
I think there might be a story about Kate marching into someone's office and throwing a bra on the table but I don't know if that's confirmed.
I also get the idea that Kate has the great character trait of not lying or deceiving as much as some.
Also within the last 2 or 3 months I have become aware of a possible fact about Jeri Ryan. I am not going to say what it is. Not because I am trying to be mysterious, the information is out there on the net, but I just don't want to point the finger at Jeri. I am 90% sure about this possible thing being true. And so the point is that Kate may possibly have been aware of this thing and reacted.
Some people hold the steadfast view that dating your boss is always wrong and reprehensible. Well I don't hold that view, and what if your boss, or if your employee is the man or woman that you would love more than any other that you would ever meet?
Possible fuller story from Kate's point of view:
- When on her previous hit show 'Ryan's hope' she had a daughter and gave her away. However she immediately regretted it and tried to get her back but couldn't. I don't think she could even get information on her. At some Kate point hired a person or persons to find her.
- Now on her next hit show she grows close to an actress young enough to be her daughter. I think she may develop something like maternal feelings toward her. Then she finds out some other actress is coming on the show and taking her place.
- She joined a show where she as the captain, the female captain, would get most of the publicity. The rules now changed on her half way through the show.
- Any new character introduced part way through a show can cause some trouble.
- She doesn't play by hollywood rules, she is relative to some very straight up and honest, and she is for positive portrayals of women. Then over the break between seasons the young actress she has grown close to is given the boot, a sex symbol in a ridiculous cat suit is brought in taking the girls place and all the publicity is now on this new person.
- So Kate who is never late, learns all her lines on too little sleep, misses out on time with her family, to enable her to portray star trek's first female captain; is now confronted with a character that is a sex symbol in a cat suit.
- And she might have learned of that possible fact that I mentioned above, and reacted.
Possible fuller story from Jeri's point of view:
- Jeri did not get the role through dating dating Brannon Braga. Jeri in fact turned the role down on more than one occasion and only started dating Mr Braga after a couple of seasons on the show.
- It was a decision of executives of the show to sex up the role of Seven.
- Jeri may have had no idea before accepting the role that Seven was going to be sexed up.
- She was already in a tough position as the newbee on a show, but Kate's attitude just made it that much tougher.
- Jeri may have 'had' to date date Mr Braga for protection from Kate. I think the actors had three year contracts. So there may have been about a year left on Jeri's contract at that stage.
As Jeri said, it was like a perfect storm. I have a strong suspicion that Kate and Jeri would both be pretty nice to other people generally. But it was a terrible position for Kate and sadly it would seem that on this occasion she reacted terribly and bullied her co-worker.
I understand Jeri coming out a few years ago and talking of her "intentionally unpleasant" experience, even after all these years. If abuse happened, which it would seem that it did, that is a terrible thing. But the younger it happens, the more intense it is and the longer it lasts, the worse it is. Still workplace abuse is painful and damaging as well.
Thankfully Kate now regrets her treatment of Jeri. To roughly quote Garrett Wang and something Kate said to him? "All those things that happened with Jeri I feel bad and I know that I did, that I wasn't right in some of the things I did, some of the actions, words that I said".
It would be tough for some, being in the public eye and their mistakes being out there for people to critique. But Kate has shown that she has grown in this matter. But what of the people who throw zingers at Kate or Jeri over this and don't take a balanced overall approach.