I didn't mind too much that evil superman bested Superman in their first fight. After all, Keegan might have made himself a slightly more powerful version of our Superman. Plus, Superman may have underestimated him since it was their first fight. And there are plenty of times in the comics and movies that Superman appears to lose his first fight but then ultimately comes back and wins in the end!
I didn't mind offense, but Superman isn't going to underestimate a guy with his same powers. Making Superman stupid is not understanding the character. He wasn't as dumb as he was in BvS, but after he saved the helicopter, it was all Deegan. You're right about Superman in the comics and movies getting the upperhand later, which would have been fine--except it didn't happen.
But the speech at the end where he tells Kara that she is stronger than him and Earth does not need a Superman when they have Supergirl, really irked me. It was so unnecessary. Clark could still encourage Kara without putting himself down. He could have said "I believe in you and I am confident our Earth is in good hands while I am gone!" That's expressing confidence in Kara without putting himself down in the process.
Exactly. I didn't even mind him taking a short time off for Lois, but to have him become Supersubmissive was horrible and very out of character. It's the insecurity of the writers. Superman can be the top dog and not make Kara seem less if the writers were more confident. But instead they want Superman to exist to make Kara out to be his better, which is simply not the case, if Superman were written in character.
How about, "Kara, I'm so proud of you and I believe in you. Lois is pregnant, and for her safety, we need to live on Argo until the baby is born. But I know that Earth is protected with you here until I can get back. But if there is an emergency and you ever need me, I will be there."
That's a lot better than, "I'm so inferior to you, you are so much better than me. Earth doesn't need me because the far superior Supergirl is there doing all the things that I can't because I'm just a piece of garbage man and my penis makes me less than you, almighty woman."
Superman was completely in character here. His greatest power is the way he builds other people up, sees the best in them and helps them see the best in themselves.
No. That's not Superman. Superman is confident. Superman knows what he wants to do. Yes, he is humble, but there's a difference between humble and submissive. Superman can build people up without tearing himself down. He can inspire by example and leadership. Superman was essentially ceding that role to Kara, which was very out of character.
And Superman would never let someone put themselves in danger when he can take that risk himself, which essentially what he is doing here.
Also, Kara is in National City--who protects Metropolis?
Don't get me wrong, I loved the crossover, but the writers did not do any justice to Superman, again, and they also ripped us off with the 1990 Flash, who was literally dismissed with the wave of a hand.