OK, when I was in college 10 years ago I had a MAD CRUSH on a very attractive woman that I worked with. She was only about five years old than I. I thought we had A LOT in common and a very distinct chemistry with one another. She was married (and is still married to the same man), so I didn't dare say a thing!!!!
I graduated college, moved out of state and we kept in touch through e-mail, but we sort of stopped communicating after two or so years had passed (for whatever reason), even though we kept each other's e-mail addresses. We found each other on Facebook two years ago. I moved back to my home city and state last year (where she still lives). She has since had two children with this man.
She admitted to me in an e-mail last December that she also has had a crush on me since we first met and has acted very flirtatious lately.........I was STUNNED, because I never in a million years expected to hear that from her.
We talk alot on text and Facebook chat now. We have seen each other in person only a few times since I moved back, and it was innocent (brief little visit at her business, bumping into her at the grocery store, etc.) She says she would spend A LOT of time with me as a friend (and maybe even date me) if she weren't married........she HATES her husband and plans to divorce him once her two children are a few years older.
She calls me "hot," "handsome" and "good-looking" in various texts and e-mails. She said she likes to flirt because it is good for her self-esteem.
She also told me that she recently cheated on her husband for the first time, with her high school boyfriend, whom she was recently reunited with through Facebook. They met in a hotel 30 miles away. The boyfriend lives on the opposite side of the state, and she won't see him very often (he is also married with children). She said she is starting to have feelings for him.
She also told me that her sex drive has increased significantly, and she has been fighting hormonal urges lately (and she used to be such a religious woman). She has been telling me lately that she is now OK with the idea of people having casual sex and even told me I was wrong to turn down some one-night stand opportunities I had with other women.
She now texts me constantly during the day, and I respond because I like getting attention from her.......I'm INSANELY attracted to her!!!!
She also needs advice, and thanks me for being a good friend to her. She tells me a lot of her secrets, stuff she tells no one else. She ends a lot of her texts with xoxo's (as in hugs and kisses) and "love ya." Some of her more recent texts have been very flirty, and she even teased me today about sending me some nude pics of her (she didn't.....just pics of her new haircut).
She wants me to "go see a movie or do something" with her next month on the weekend that her husband and sons are leaving the state for a weekend trip (she is staying in town)
Taking all of this into account, do any of you believe that this woman is setting up an attempt to sleep with me?
Or should I just assume that she wants to be my friend and that the whole movie thing (and the flirtation) is totally innocent?
Because I don't believe I could resist her if she tried to initiate something with me. I haven't been in a relationship or had sex in more than two years.......I am sexually frustrated.........
I graduated college, moved out of state and we kept in touch through e-mail, but we sort of stopped communicating after two or so years had passed (for whatever reason), even though we kept each other's e-mail addresses. We found each other on Facebook two years ago. I moved back to my home city and state last year (where she still lives). She has since had two children with this man.
She admitted to me in an e-mail last December that she also has had a crush on me since we first met and has acted very flirtatious lately.........I was STUNNED, because I never in a million years expected to hear that from her.
We talk alot on text and Facebook chat now. We have seen each other in person only a few times since I moved back, and it was innocent (brief little visit at her business, bumping into her at the grocery store, etc.) She says she would spend A LOT of time with me as a friend (and maybe even date me) if she weren't married........she HATES her husband and plans to divorce him once her two children are a few years older.
She calls me "hot," "handsome" and "good-looking" in various texts and e-mails. She said she likes to flirt because it is good for her self-esteem.
She also told me that she recently cheated on her husband for the first time, with her high school boyfriend, whom she was recently reunited with through Facebook. They met in a hotel 30 miles away. The boyfriend lives on the opposite side of the state, and she won't see him very often (he is also married with children). She said she is starting to have feelings for him.
She also told me that her sex drive has increased significantly, and she has been fighting hormonal urges lately (and she used to be such a religious woman). She has been telling me lately that she is now OK with the idea of people having casual sex and even told me I was wrong to turn down some one-night stand opportunities I had with other women.
She now texts me constantly during the day, and I respond because I like getting attention from her.......I'm INSANELY attracted to her!!!!
She also needs advice, and thanks me for being a good friend to her. She tells me a lot of her secrets, stuff she tells no one else. She ends a lot of her texts with xoxo's (as in hugs and kisses) and "love ya." Some of her more recent texts have been very flirty, and she even teased me today about sending me some nude pics of her (she didn't.....just pics of her new haircut).
She wants me to "go see a movie or do something" with her next month on the weekend that her husband and sons are leaving the state for a weekend trip (she is staying in town)
Taking all of this into account, do any of you believe that this woman is setting up an attempt to sleep with me?
Or should I just assume that she wants to be my friend and that the whole movie thing (and the flirtation) is totally innocent?
Because I don't believe I could resist her if she tried to initiate something with me. I haven't been in a relationship or had sex in more than two years.......I am sexually frustrated.........
