~Bangs head against door~

[Paradon]

Do not listen to this guy.

Agreed. Macho men give me a sad. Or a good laugh...depends on my mood.

Yes, but many of these guys get the girls, and many of them. These Colin Ferrel, Eminem, Kidd Rock, and Tommy Lee type losers not only get the girls, and lots of them, but when the girls find out about his little 'harem', they don't get mad at him, they get mad at the other girls.....how twisted is that? And if he loses any one of them, two more will take her place.

Common, dude! They're not that bad. Aren't they people like you and I? The last I check, they are...

3 things you don't want to mention in front of a girl are:
1. Your mom
2. You're taking her to your monther house the first few weeks you two are dating.
3. Saying sorry too many times.


Just tell yourself you're awesome and act like it's natural. Don't second guess yourself. You need to learn to speak up for yourself. Be a man! Follow God. Come back a man! [laugh]

You know a lot of girls like guys who smell like pine. I guess that kindda remind them off lumberjack or something.

 

[The Castellan]

Male genitalia on a female body which... Well I'm not sure what that is, to be honest. It's not homosexuality since the person identifies with being a female more than a male and has a female body aside from one important part... but then the penis is obviously a male sexual organ and to be attracted to it obviously suggests some level of homosexuality.

Argh.

It's all sideways and bizarre.

Sideways and bizarre? Thanks, pal.

Well, I would not call it homosexual per say, since gender and sex are two different things. Like look at Rosie O'Donnel, she might have a vagina, but she's a man in my book, a vagina is not necessarily a woman make. I know a non-op transsexual adult film star, I talk to her on the phone often, and she's more feminine than any genetically born female I met. I'd go after her myself, if it were not for the distance involved, us being on opposite ends of the country.

Anyhow, that's my sexuality, I don't like vagina, but like the female form, I like the penis, but not the male body. That is it is, I can not help it. Is god/nature playing some joke on me? Who knows, but I been like this since as way back as I can remember. Hell, first girl I ever been had something more than a mere, platonic friendship was, in fact, an inter-sexed girl, and a rather fine one at that.

 

[The Castellan]

This is why single people need to wear badges. We need to identify our own kind!

Badges? Badges? We don' need no stinkin' badges!

As far as the conversation about friends becoming lovers or significant others..... i have found that the best relationships i had started out as friends. And once i really really got to know the person i found myself falling in love. But we were CLEARLY friends from the beginning. So don't discount that at all.

And, i did read the entire thread, but it's possible i may have missed this point/question: Have you ever had a gay relationship? Maybe with a gay man who is out might actually be what you are looking for? Just my thoughts. Your milage may vary.

Thanks, I always said the best lovers are those who were friends for a long time. You know what he/she knows, he/she knows what you know, there's more trust, and so on. I could never understand why a lot of folks prefer people who are practically strangers that they met in some bar or club. And sometimes an attraction could take time to happen, not instantaneously.

Don't want a man. Only way that can happen if the person's one of those really, really, really, really feminine/pretty ones who pretty much look like a girl, sounds like one, thinks like one, and so on, like this ----> http://i281.photobucket.com/albums/kk230/AkatsukixShinigami/Jrock/miku.jpg and those are ULTRA rare here in corn field country, where everyone is more like the cast of King of the Hill.

So, welcome to the hell that is my life.

 

[DS9Continuing]

That's why you need to move. I met plenty of people like that in New York.

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[Trekker4747]

Or move to West Hollywood.

 

[The Castellan]

That's why you need to move. I met plenty of people like that in New York.

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As I stated in a previous post, when I can afford to move, I plan to. Until I can, it's not happening.

 

[Emher]

This is why single people need to wear badges. We need to identify our own kind!

Not the worst idea ever. Not the best either, but more on the good side.

Trust me, a lot of girls want bad boys, they only wake up either by:

1: They take themselves for granted, are self proclaimed divas, and go for the decent guys/girls if they start loosing their looks, which happens often with these girls because of their hectic, self destructive life style with so much drinking, smoking, partying, and drugs. Why do you think Lindsy Lohan wears so much makeup lately? Because that life style accelerates the aging process so much, many of these girls look like their 50 before they hit 35, and that's if they live long enough to get to that age.

2: Mr Bad Ass leaves them for someone younger.

3: Mr Bad Ass knocks 'em up and leaves, never to be seen again.

I see it all the time, and to any ladies who are like that, here, here's some advice...there's a reason bad boy has the word 'bad'. To me, the only good bad boy is a dead bad boy, they are mosquitoes.

I bet you, inside of one weekend, I could go to southeastern Michigan, and find a whole host of women who like good guys.

^To the Batmobile?

I noticed girls tends to got for guys that like cars and into sports. Isn't that macho enough?

That's an awful generalization and doesn't apply to me or my female friends.
Actually... I know NO girl who is into guys who like cars. How shallow is that? lol

Yeah, going by that logic, I'd be a lot more popular with the ladies then I am seeing how much I like cars.

As far as the conversation about friends becoming lovers or significant others..... i have found that the best relationships i had started out as friends. And once i really really got to know the person i found myself falling in love. But we were CLEARLY friends from the beginning. So don't discount that at all.

And, i did read the entire thread, but it's possible i may have missed this point/question: Have you ever had a gay relationship? Maybe with a gay man who is out might actually be what you are looking for? Just my thoughts. Your milage may vary.

While I certainly see your argument and can agree with it, I've tried this a lot more then I care to admit and it just...makes you tired in the long run. Trying to make it clear to the girl that you've developed feelings for them, only to have her go meet some random guy and fall head over heels.

I'm not trying to sound bitter, I'm really not. I like to believe that there's a way for everyone to be happy. I'm just a bit tired right now.

 

[DS9Continuing]

That's why you need to move. I met plenty of people like that in New York.

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As I stated in a previous post, when I can afford to move, I plan to. Until I can, it's not happening.

Yes, I got that, thanks. My point is, you have a definite goal to work towards. Things are never going to change if you sit and wallow. You need to make them happen for yourself. Save money, apply for new jobs, work towards a promotion or a transfer, whatever you need to do to get yourself into a position where you can be happy.

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