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Honoring My Mom: 8/6/59 - 3/24/15

Moviefan2k4

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Today is the tenth anniversary of my Mom's journey to Heaven, so with that in mind, I wanted to share a few notable facts about her, for anyone who's interested. Here we go...
  • She once traveled to Brazil, as a young adult.
  • She was a military brat, and the eldest of seven kids.
  • Her hobbies included drawing, singing, assembling puzzles, and (apparently) swimming.
  • As a child, she used to sing me to sleep and play with my curly, fire-red hair.
  • She valued education, having only completed one year of college herself.
  • Some of her earlier jobs included police dispatcher and convenience store clerk.
  • She was very faithful in her love for God and Jesus, but not legalistic.
  • She nicknamed me her "big ol' bear", since I loved giving and receiving hugs.
  • Her favorite musicians included Randy Travis, The Carpenters, Amy Grant, and the Trans-Siberian Orchestra.
  • Her favorite holidays were Christmas, Easter, and the Fourth of July.
  • She loved watching fireworks, though few places existed in Dallas for safe displays.
  • She wore a lot of blue and purple in general.
  • She generally disliked having her photo taken, especially on a whim.
  • Her favorite video games were Mrs. Pac-Man and Tetris.
  • Her favorite table games were Scrabble and Canasta.
  • Her favorite movie was "Phenomenon", starring John Travolta.
  • She enjoyed cooking, especially making cookies by hand.
  • She never wore a lot of jewelry, but she did have a small silver cross (which is now mine).
  • She loved collecting both dolls and stuffed animals...especially puppies and teddy bears.
  • She was employed by the Coca-Cola company for 14 years, in their credit department.
  • She was easily shocked, which my sister and I took full advantage of multiple times.
  • When very angry, she would address someone by their first and middle name.
  • She named me partly after my Uncle Larry, whom she considered an honorable man.
  • She cited actress Lauren Bacall as the inspiration for my sister's first name.
  • Before I was born, she'd fallen in love with her stepmother's brother, who sadly passed from a brain injury.
  • She shared the same first initial with all three of her sisters.
  • Her middle name was the same as her mother's.
  • She won a local advertising award as a high-school senior in the late 1970s.
  • When stressed, she often journaled to keep herself from exploding at people.
  • She verbally sparred with her mother, which amused me since both had very similar temperaments.
  • When shopping, her list was almost irrelevant. She'd write down ten items, and leave with thirty.
  • One Christmas, she wrote and hung this sign on the tree: DON'T TOUCH ANYTHING UNTIL I WAKE UP!
  • On my 18th birthday, she taped eighteen one-dollar bills end-to-end, and draped them across the refrigerator.
  • I was born premature, and the hospital only let her stay for a short time...but she still made it back to see me almost every day, until my release six weeks later.
  • She was no saint, but she had one of the biggest hearts of anyone I've ever known.
  • Last but never least, I know she loved me the best she knew how.
 
If I may ask, did you have the honor of delivering her eulogy?
I didn't deliver a lengthy statement, but the next-to-last item in that list is something I literally said at her memorial. By the time of that event, I'd spent much of the past few days crying, so I was mentally, emotionally, and spiritually drained. In fact, less than 30 people showed up, so I tried to lighten the mood by quoting Bilbo Baggins - "I don't know the half of you half as well as I should like, and I like less than half of you, half as well as you deserve." The room's response was total silence, much like that moment in the film, but I didn't care.
 
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